we all are perfectly imperfect...

well,i always start my talk with a disclaimer.and that disclaimer is that i have never claimed to be a motivational speaker.

yes i do speak.

butt i feel more like a storyteller because wherever i go i share a story with everyone.

well,it is story of a woman

who perfectly imperfect life.

made her who,and what she is today.

its the story of a woman who in pursuit of her dreams and aspirations made other people realize.

tat if you think that your life is hard and your are giving up on that because you think your life is unfair.

think again...

because when you think that way you are being unfair to your own self.its a story of a woman who made people realize that sometimes problems are not too big  .we are too small.because we cannot handal them.

it is a story of a woman who we time realize the real happiness doesn't lie in success,money,fame,

it lies within 

real happiness lies in gratitude.so  i m hare ,i believe in the power of words,many people speak before they think bit i know the value of words the words can make you,break you.they can heal your soul,they can damage you forever.

so ,i always try to use the positive words in my life wherever i go.

they call adversity i call its opportunity ,they call it weakness i call it strength.they call me disabled i call myself differently abled.they see my disability i see my ability.there are some incidents that happen in your life and those incidents are so strong that they Chang your whole life.

those incidents or accidents are so strong that they break you physically.they deform your body,but they-transform your soul.those incidents break you.deform you,but they mold you into the best version of you,and they same thing happened to me.

life is beautiful: Gives is always more blessed..........

life is beautiful: Gives is always more blessed..........: The Kindness you give is not get in return . Sometimes its more,sometimes its less. Worst,sometimes you get non at all. ...

life is beautiful: life changing true story...everything is possible ...

life is beautiful: life changing true story...everything is possible ...: i got married when i was 18.i did my bachelors after my marriage and got 2nd position in it.but due to family commitments,i had to disconti...

life is beautiful: what is imperative for a peaceful life.....

life is beautiful: what is imperative for a peaceful life.....: theres a thing in life known by the word compromise. which is imperative for a peaceful life. because when you are unable to  change thing...

what is imperative for a peaceful life.....

theres a thing in life known by the word compromise.
which is imperative for a peaceful life.
because when you are unable to  change things
you should better learn to get along with them.

never make wish that cannot be attained for there are things in life that mightnot gonna happen no matter how much we whine about it.

but that doesn't necessarily means that life has nothing to offer us.there is something for everyone.
just waiting for the right time.

life changing true story...everything is possible in life......

i got married when i was 18.i did my bachelors after my marriage and got 2nd position in it.but due to family commitments,i had to discontinue my studies.
but amidst all the chores,deep inside,a voice would keep calling,you are meant to do more.
having ignored this voice is too long,i enrolled myself in masters program in AIOU and started teaching as soon as my children started going to school.my hubby ,seeing the efforts i would put in every small assignment,urged me to go for CSS.

with two demanding children and sick mother in low  to attend to,along with teaching  and studing for last semester of masters,i set off for preparing for CSS.i had the untiring support of my hubby who stayed by my side till the end.
it was his strength that kept me motivated.

but the moment of glory came with the moment of grief.my hubby passed away in an accident a week before my CSS result came out.i had been allocated but  the person who had made it possible wast not there to celebrate with me.

i feel as if he knew all along that he was going to go.
that all this while he was trying to help equip me with everything that i would need when he was gone,we did it.


i m thankful to GOD for choosing me for a partner like him and a privilege like civil service.i resolve to live up to both of this blessings 

happy in so many ways....

sometime ,i forget to think

the people who make my life

so happy in so many ways.

sometime i forget to

tell them how much i really

 

do appreciate them for being

an important part of my life.

so thank you  ,all of

you,just for being here for me.