Thursday, 2 May 2019

SMILE

                                         SMILE




When I was in second grade and my parents constantly 

fought and eventually got divorced, my big brother 

always told me to smile. Smile, and it would be okay. 

Smile, try to be optimistic, and things would get better.

 And they did. It’s unhealthy to pout and be upset for 

extended periods of time, so I have continued to 

endeavor to live my life this way: smiling. I genuinely 

value happiness and optimism over anything else in life.

 If we are truly happy, I don’t think anything else really

 matters. It’s impossible for any individual to be happy at 

all times, but I still think it beneficial and uplifting to try.







Monday, 29 April 2019

life is beautiful: can happiness be measured philosophy?

life is beautiful: can happiness be measured philosophy?:                        The Psychology of Happiness can happiness be measured philosophy. Way back in 1929, Walter A. Pitkin...

can happiness be measured philosophy?

                       The Psychology of Happiness



can happiness be measured philosophy.

Way back in 1929, Walter A. Pitkin wrote ‘The Psychology of Happiness’ and in this book, he differentiated between happiness and related emotions including pleasure and enjoyment (Samuel, 2019). He argued that achieving happiness was not merely the result of luck or chance. Since this time, psychologists have continued to try and define happiness.
According to psychology, happiness is about more than simply the experience of a positive mood. In order to describe happiness, psychologists commonly refer to subjective well being (Kesebir & Diener, 2008). In other words, happiness is “people’s evaluations of their lives and encompasses both cognitive judgments of satisfaction and affective appraisals of moods and emotions” (Kesebir & Diener, 2008, p. 118).
The psychological inquiry into happiness is important because happiness is not only associated with improved physical health and even longevity, but it is also a priority for people – across the world, happiness has been rated as being more important than other desirable outcomes including living a meaningful life or making a lot of money (Psychology Today, 2019).
There are three ways that psychologists study happiness

 1.Need and Goal Satisfaction Theories

These theories suggest that happiness results from striving to achieve appropriate goals and meeting one’s fundamental human needs (Nelson, Kurtz & Lyubomirsky, in press). Deci and Ryan (2000) for example, proposed Self-determination Theory, which stipulates that wellbeing is achieved when one meets their basic human needs including autonomy, competence, and relatedness.

2. Genetic and Personality Predisposition Theories

These propose that wellbeing is influenced by genes, and is associated with the personality traits of extraversion and neuroticism (Nelson et al., in press). This, in turn, implies that wellbeing does not change much over time.

3. Process/activity theories

Process/activity theories argue that wellbeing may be improved by participating in activities that are engaging and require effort (Nelson et al., in press).
Psychologists ask the question, ‘is it possible to increase one’s happiness?’. Some psychologists claim that making an attempt to enhance happiness is pointless because happiness levels are predetermined and stable over time (Norrish & Vella-Brodrick, 2008).
Consistent with this argument is the Happiness Set Point. The Happiness Set Point argues that a person’s state of happiness will be constant over time, regardless of changes in circumstances (Norrish & Vella-Brodrick, 2008).
Adapting to environmental changes is termed ‘the hedonic treadmill’ or ‘homeostatic control’ (Norrish & Vella-Brodrick, 2008). This notion of adaptation (leading to relatively stable levels of happiness) is supported by findings in research that individuals who may be high in either positive or negative affect (e.g. lottery winners, paralysis victims) demonstrate that their happiness levels revert to their ‘usual’ range after a period of time (Norrish & Vella-Brodrick, 2008).
Some psychologists argue that the Happiness Set Point provides evidence that happiness cannot be enhanced (Norrish & Vella-Brodrick, 2008). There is a perspective taken by some psychologists that happiness is a ‘trait’ or a personal disposition to experience a certain affect.
This perspective suggests that happiness is relatively stable over time, and therefore efforts to increase happiness are futile (Norrish & Vella-Brodrick, 2008). However, research has shown that although subjective well-being may be associated with personality traits (e.g. extraversion), that differences in reports of happiness levels over time suggest that, in fact, happiness is not a trait (Norrish & Vella-Brodrick, 2008).
Thus, happiness has been an important area of focus for psychologists. What, then, about the more recent science of happiness…positive psychology?


Happiness and Positive Psychology

Positive psychology can be described as a psychology of potential, and what ‘could be’ as compared to what ‘is’ (Seligman & Csikszentmihalyi, 2000). It aims to shift what has historically been the predominant focus of psychology – pathology – to examining the development of positive qualities in individuals and communities (Seligman & Csikszentmihalyi, 2000).
In other words, Positive Psychology aims to understand and cultivate the factors that put individuals, communities, and societies in a position where they are able to ‘flourish’ (Fredrickson, 2001).
What does it mean to ‘flourish’? Put simply, it is a state of optimal wellbeing (Fredrickson, 2001). Fredrickson (2001) asked the question “what role do positive emotions play in positive psychology?”.
Well, as it turns out, happiness can be thought of as experiencing predominantly positive emotions, or affective states, rather than negative ones (Tkach & Lyubomirsky, 2006). Thus, positive emotions are a sign of flourishing, or, in other words, happiness (Fredrickson, 2001). Happiness is central to the assumptions of positive psychology.

  • Positive emotions – P
  • Engagement – E
  • Relationships – R
  • Meaning – M
  • Accomplishment – A

life is beautiful: FRIENDSHIP

life is beautiful: FRIENDSHIP:                                    FRIENDSHIP One of my biggest values in life is friendship. I believe I developed the value of ...

FRIENDSHIP


                                   FRIENDSHIP



One of my biggest values in life is friendship. I believe I developed the value of friendship early in life through the schools I attended. I come from a decently large suburb, but attended small private schools growing up. My grade always had about 50 kids in it from Kindergarten through high school. I went through all these years of school with basically the same group of kids, and we helped raise each other. We went through everything together and I knew them all well. The small school and class environment allowed me to get really close to my peers.

I look back on these years and the friendships I made as very special. I'm still very close with all of my friends from home because of the bonds and connections we have from growing up together. I've taken the value of friendship with me to college, where I have a new group of very close friends. Whenever I'm down or need someone to talk to, I can always look to my friends. I know that they have my back and I have theirs. If I need anything I can always look to them, and I really value the friendships that I've made.

I think it's really important that even while we're at school, with homework, exams, and the burden of figuring out our lives, that we still have friends to rely on and spend time with. There's more to life than just your job. Friends help make your life happier. In five years this value will be very important to me as I move to a new city with new people. I will need to make new friends who I will spend time with on weekends when not at work. I will also maintain the friendships I've made from home and from school, and will keep in touch with them regularly. Together, this will help me create a large network of friends all over the country.


Friday, 26 April 2019

life is beautiful: NIGHT TO SHINE

life is beautiful: NIGHT TO SHINE:                             NIGHT TO SHINE On February 9, 2018, I was a volunteer at NFL star Tim Te bow's Night to Shine, a pr...

NIGHT TO SHINE

                            NIGHT TO SHINE


On February 9, 2018, I was a volunteer at NFL star Tim Te bow's Night to Shine, a prom for 


developmentally disabled individuals. It was the most amazing, humbling experience I have ever 

been a


 part of.


These beautiful spirits believe they can do anything and who are we to tell them they can't? They

 sing.
 They dance. They tell jokes. They laugh with their friends. THEY LOVE. They, with all their 

challenges,


 SHINE!


That night they were all stars. They walked the red carpet. They were prom queens and kings 

with
crowns and tiaras. Mobile, immobile, verbal, non-verbal, blind, deaf, they showed up and were 

fearless.


 And they stole my heart. I challenge you all, whether your life is touched by disability or not to 

learn more


 about the Tim Te bow Night to Shine and join me as a volunteer next year. You won't regret it
.


                       NIGHT TO SHINE





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