how humans are strong ,person didn't give up and that day you live always ....

the true story of a woman.i am 20 yers old when i got married.and this thing i m sharing for the very first time on an international level.i belonged to a very conservative family,a Bloch family,where good daughters never say no to their parents.my father wanted me to get married.and all i said was if that makes you happy i ll say ,yes.and of course,it was never a happy marriage.

just about after two years of getting married,about nine years ago,i made a car accident.somehow my husband fell asleep,and the car fell in to the ditch.but i stayed inside the car,and i sustained a lot of injuries.the list is a bit long.dont get scared i m perfectly fine.radius ALLAH of my right arm were fractured.the wrist was fractured.
shoulder bone and collarbone were fractured.my whole rib-cage got fractured,and because of the rib cage injury,lungs and liver were badly injured.i could not breathe.i lost you renal bowel control,thats why i have to wear the bag wherever i go,but that injury that changed me and my life completely,as a person in my life perception towards living my life was the spine injury.

And i got paralyzed for the rest of my life.and now there was this debate going on.should we keep it here she going to die?where should we go, and i still remember that i was all bracken finally ended up in a hospital where i stayed for tow and a half month.i underwent multiple surgeries.

some times wonder how easy it is for me to describe all this all over again,and somebody has said you wrote my story.where i realize that the words have the power to heal the soul.i was trying to put smile on my face all the time was hiding it was so hard to hide the pain,which was there,but all i knew was that if i will give up my family will give up too.i cant see them crying with me.

so, what kept me going and i erased it,i cried.and that day i felt disable.i said i cannot kick the ball.and i was down with the same face.well,thas  alright .your legs are not working,but your hands too.lets play catch the ball.you know that day she made me realize that when you think your self glass is half empty,come on ,your glass is half full.

its all in here and here.your mind and your heart.last but not least,the woman who made me realize that heroes have no gender.this too shall pass.God has a bigger plan,and one day you will say that.whatever i am to day.am nothing without her.

thanks my mom.

you know what we human being have a problam out of many problems ,there is one more,and this is self created on.we always expect ease from life,we have this fantasy about life.this is how things should work.if that doesn't happen,we give up.let me tell you one thing...i never wanted to be on the wheelchairs a very heavy price.

this life is a test and a trial and tests our trials, are never supposed to be easy so when you are expecting are from life.because you were expecting ease a trial.trial makes was stronger a better person.life is atrial.every time you realize that.

it is OK to be cry.but everything is okay,but giving up should not be an option.they always say that failure is not an option.failure should be an option because when you fail.you get up ,and then you fail,then you get up,and thats keeps you going.

THATS HOW HUMANS ARE STRONG.

human didn't give up.that is the day you live.always.