nothing will change unless you Chang.

during the day i will care of my child,during the day i was take care of my home,what when wrong,i did everything right.so why it did happen to me,we dont fail,till be fail our self.

this is about march i was 38 years old and i was in a really troubled relation ship.it was my marriage of 14 years we had a child together we had been living to together but had seen everything together.but some where relationship had brokenhearted husband asked me,to take of 4 years of marriage,he said,can you give me this rack,and can you attend all my family function .so we show as a hubby wife.

i dont what hit me,he try to cut of me ,i realized that what ever i have done for so many years.trying to find a place trying to find a point in a relationship where he would love me back.that point was never gone to come.and that is when i thought that i have to take step for my self.

this is the story of my dednaty this is the story of the balance found dednaty and responsibility.on that night it was a very very nerves night for me,i looked around in my house i looked at the things that i had decorated.i looked at pocked plants everything  around me.

everything felt like a toes me.but i felt like it was not longer for me.i packed up my bags and i left a house i did not take the anything i did not look back.as i walked out and i was cross the street.i was living a place which i never thoughts.that i would live .on that moment my life was complexly changed.and was stoner an stronger.

just of one choice.that is a difference.transformation is really proactive,i drag down a dad in job ,i drag down my house i drag down my child,i dragged down my relation ship.and the rezone i did that,was accuse is this  a part of life.its perfectly ok.in that time i have good job i have a child i have bank balance but u dont huge your bank balance when you unhappy.you cant huge your apartment if you unhappy.

that is not,what will give you that kind of happiness.and the realized that really really late, so transformation hit me when my meltdown happend.it hit me and realized that all actually human and the pain i was taken ,so i decided to changed my life.

so now  i m a I.C.A officer.life couch and i m working a motivational person also.